Monthly Marriage Reset

For busy parents • 10-15 minute monthly reset

🧩 Keep what works 🛑 Drop what keeps causing fights 🚀 Add one small upgrade ⏱️ Done in 10-15 minutes

Do this tonight

Step 1

Short talks are easier to finish.

Step 2

One short line for each. No long speeches.

Step 3

Small and clear wins.

Pick one of these and run it exactly tonight:

5-minute version: Read the copy/paste script out loud, then do one tiny action from this tool immediately.
10-minute version: Set a timer, follow the “Do this tonight” steps top to bottom, and stop when timer ends.
Couple-text version: Send this now: “Can we do Monthly Marriage Reset tonight for 10 minutes? I already picked the first step so this is easy.”

If you feel stuck, use the 5-minute version first. Progress beats perfection.

“I don’t want a huge relationship talk. I just want one small win tonight. Can we do a quick 10-minute monthly reset?”

Normal energy

Do Keep / Stop / Start, then lock one action for tomorrow.

Kid-chaos mode

Do one part now and finish later tonight.

Calm down first, then come back to this tool.

✅ Fewer repeat fights ✅ Quicker make-ups ✅ More teamwork at home

Simple rule: If a step helps this week, keep it. If not, change it next month.

After this, run the 10-Minute Weekly Meeting to keep the progress going.

When to use it: Use Monthly Marriage Reset when this exact problem is happening now, not as a general reading exercise.
How often: Run it once today, then repeat 3-7 times before judging results.
Common mistake: Changing multiple things at once. Use one tool at a time so you can see what works.
If it feels awkward: Use the script exactly once, keep the first run under 10 minutes, and rate helpfulness 1-10.